Apollo11
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Hi all,
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ORIGINAL: gladiatt
Claire (my wife) had her cancer start in 2001. The Thyroid was removed totaly, and yes she has pills for the rest of her life; according to the doctors, for a thyroid cancer, it was a bad one. She then had to endure a radioactive iode traitment wich lead to tiring for a year or so. In 2002, bad luck, something went wrong, she had to make another surgery, and another treatment. I knew her in september 2002 when she just get out of the treatment (isolated a full 5 days because of raidiation in her body !!). We date in november of 2002. In 2005, during a control, we believed (well, the doctors told us) that may be it was starting agin. I lose faith in my family at this time (i won't enter in details), but after 3 months of anxiety and various test we knew it was not this.
In january 2007 we get married (best day in my life so far !!).
In november 2007 my wife fell from a horse; she nearly broke her spine. She stayed in bed in a "corset"( what is the english word ??)for 3 months, unable to move. I had to change things in the house for her ( get the bed upper, change the toilets, and so on), i washed her, i feed her, i gave her what she couldn't reach, i try to give support, and that was hard for both of us. In march 2008, she get off her "corset" and start re-education, wich took 6 more months. But in the meantime, back to work, things get bad with her boss, added with the stress she had when she was lying in bed for 3 months. The 29 august 2008 (and as the day come closer, the anxiety of my wife grow), she made a mental crisis (Delirium tremens) with complete loss of the reality. In order to escape from me (because i was my doomed double (i have no double brother) ), she jumped of the window....she broke a coastal bone. She also was closed in mental hospital for 2 weeks, until she get back in reality. And of course, she had to see a psy. She was weak for all the winter.
Then, right now, as we both look for some rest (because each challange need a long time to rest), we learn that her cancer grow again (and Claire believe it is from the stress from her boss last year, and from the fact of staying motionless for 3 months 2 years ago);
once again, the diagnosis tell that although a thyroid cancer, it is a severe one. To tell you the truth, doctors are interested in her case because it's a uncommon case (don't they see the human being behind the "case" ??????). We know that after the surgery, there will (not would or could) have a radioactive treatment, wich lay my wife asleep as soon as 8pm in the evening, wich lead to few energy to make sport or go out on week end, and of course wich have an influence on the morale.
SO to resume: my wife and i know what it is. We know what is going to happen; we know the risk. We know it can be cure, but there is always a risk; and we know we can't afford to be weak: a disease, wichever it is, is cure ALSO by a strong morale.
(problem is i have some kind of malus on the moral check, something like -15 on a die roll  ; trying to joke, sorry).
I am not feeling offended by your post Leo, don't get it wrong. I just explain what we had get through, what we are going to face, and the fact that i don't know how to express that i am SCARED TO LOSE MY WIFE.
Sorry, long mail.
Once again, i appreciate each threadster brother that give a word  .
You both really had tough luck... and bad streak... <SIGH> 
What can one say... really best of luck and wishes Eric!
Leo "Apollo11"
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