Lecivius
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Joined: 8/5/2007 From: Denver Status: offline
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I read though this, and I am saddened. Kids stuck in front of a PC. Head in a cell phone. "kids live in front of their computers. they don´t go outside, they have no real life experiences, no real friends" Sad. And I truly blame the adults. If you have children, you make a conscious decision to share your life, and that means sacrificing your time. I was not sure I wanted kids, my wife was. But once we went forward, I knew my life as it was before was over. Nowadays, parents are not involved. Not like they used to be. There are some, to be sure. But mostly adults plunk their kids in front of a TV so the parents can get time for their lives. Video games become an activity so the kids are not ‘bothering’ mom & dad. “In my teens, my friends and I were scouts, and would spend pretty much every weekend camping out in the woods.” I was never a scout, but I did the same thing. Even when we lived in San Francisco, we would take bike trips to Big Sur. When my son came around, I was now a dad. I had PC’s (386, when 56k ram was more than enough for anyone). I played games. But when he would come shuffling in everything got dropped, and he got my full attention. Growing up, we joined the scouts, just to find something outside to engage in. Anyone who knows scouts knows it can engage your time. When we joined, it was him & me. I didn’t just drop him off & hope someone else would watch him. Going through scouts I became a scoutmaster because no one else would step up. Other scoutmasters talked all the time about Baby Sitters of America. The boys who stay with it are the boys with dads who are engaged. The kids of today are a direct representation of the time & effort my generation input. I grew up before PC’s. I loved it. Making my own toys, playing in the dirt, running away to join a carnival :P When computers became main stream I got into them in a big way. But I never surrendered to them. So while I could make it in the pre-PC era, and I may even enjoy parts of it, I am here today. And a PC is still, just a tool. Just like a hammer. Put it down, and go interact with the world.
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