Charles2222
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Rhythm, rhythm, rhythm. Each and every week (vacations excepting) you give up computer gaming for a day. I know most of us, especially on a long weekend day, find it necessary for sanity and other reasons to break from gaming here and there, but the passion is the enemy from my standpoint. You cool it's jets by giving it up on a regular basis like that. In my particular case two times a week is too much, but everybody has their limits. We therefore put the "passion that is controlling us" on the backburner and show it just who's in charge. This does lead to 'somewhat' of a lesser passion for the object desired, but it also doesn't contribute to these ideas of running away from it for what I've heard, long periods of time, like 10 days or a month, or even more. With a steady rhythm you achieve more control and not so much distraught over how much you hate your predominant spare tiem passion. I'll tell you, with my actually doing the system I suggest over a period of time, though it be in a religious context in my case, I have got 'bored' with gaming, a day or two outside my abstaination day, tops, but I'd never say I hated it. I'd hate it too if it had me by the throat.
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