Oleg Mastruko -> PBEM frustrations (and ways to solve them) (3/17/2003 3:39:31 AM)
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It seems I just had like dozenth PBEM opponent drop on me, stop sending turns, stop responding to mails etc. All this after we BOTH stated in our opening mails how we hate quitters, how we'll do our best to play at least till the autumn of 42 (or until we have clear winner etc.). I was Jap in this game, and my initial offensive was going kinda OK, but not so well as to make him leave the game or surrender. He lost 2 (two) minor ships so far (mid-June). Don't know what to do. In my personal records I count all them dropouts as "victories" for me but it's small consolation... What's especially depressing - I've had serious players, UV beta testers, UV modders... quitting our games, just stopping responding to mails just like that!! Don't know who to trust anymore!! Guys this is BAD manners! At least, one should have guts and honor to say "I SURRENDER" in his last mail... That's the least thing one should expect. This last player I am talking about (i won't name him, but he's on UV game credits no less!), used MY whining (I was telling how disappointed I was with my Bettys and Nells) as an excuse to quit the game under premises "yes I know you're disappointed with your aircraft, and I got busy lately, so that's it, we'll call it a draw and goodbye"!! Ridicolous! This is NOT a draw. I think my Bettys are crap, and that my options are severely limited, but I don't surrender because of that. One of the ideas behind this game (especially as Jap) is trying to play under frustrating, adverse conditions. I WANT to try that. I will whine, but I won't abandon the game because of it. I am thinking of starting a "black list" of PBEM quitters but this would seem small minded and petty... So, lets rather start a "Gold List" of players that do their duty honorably, always respond to mails, play to the bitter end, and remain dignified both in victory and in defeat. Apollo 11 is such player. Unfortunatelly I don't know of any others, but I'd love to know their names. From what I gathered from their epic game, Kid and Crocky also qualify. BTW, I'd love to start a SERIOUS game of #17 or #19, any side - if you consider yourself honorable, persistent, NOT a quitter, NOT losing interest in game easily, you know you'll find a time to play at least turn a day - please, PLEASE, *PLEASE* contact me. We may whine, we may curse, we may take days long pauses in our game if needs be, we may do anything that is humanely reasonable, but we won't quit unless in a desperate, "Yamamoto and MacArthur would surender too" kind of situation. So? PLEASE. It has come to that I am ready to PAY to find worthy PBEM partners! :) Oleg
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