stuman
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ORIGINAL: stuman I know one guy who took a week off when his first two were born ; he went Duck hunting the first time, and Deer hunting the second. They are no longer married. But interestingly enough he has actually turned out to be a good father in most respects. Was too immature when he first got married I think. I am fortunate to be employed in a large Midwest University. Fathers are given 2 weeks off paid and can take an additional 4 weeks with the application of vacation or unpaid parental leave. I took about a month off for both of my kids and relished the experience. By US standards, this is unmitigated generosity, practically unheard of outside of a University or, maybe, Federal government. Sure, a bit stir crazy at the end, but you only get one chance to make a first impression, as it were. I was fortunate to 'start things off on the right foot', IMO. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Let the clients crank a bit. If they're not supportive of the most important thing in my life, they can all go hang. Erm...maybe it's best that I'm not in public practice... I do think it is a lot different in the professions, clients will not wait, and there is plenty of competition out there. Also I think most of my fellow CPAs/Attornerys tended to do what I did and wait for a while after both grandmoms left and thus took time off later. I always waited for a while, then would take a half day off here, a long weekend there so my wife could go out , get things done, have some fun by herself, etc. But I have no clue what I would do with a month off for example. I do not think I have taken more than 10 days off in a row since the summer after Law School, which was about a quarter century ago
< Message edited by stuman -- 12/14/2009 8:49:51 PM >
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