rhondabrwn
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Joined: 9/29/2004 From: Snowflake, Arizona Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: JW Rhonda, I understand. Working for the last 12 years with very poor minority kids in a poor rural area, I heard lots of those stories. Fortunately for me, though, I did not live in that area and drove 25 miles a day from my nice suburban home to teach there. But I know all about the way some kids will do. I learned real quick that I could not leave anything of value unsecured in the classroom. It would be gone in a second. And we had some interesting discussions on stealing, with some students absolutely claiming they had a right to take things from people who had more, essentially from 'the man.' Now I teach at a more diverse school with everything from rich to poor kids, about half white and half black with some Latinos and Asians. But I still have to be extra careful about leaving anything unsecure. So I feel for you, having to deal with this with your home. Do you have any protection besides the dogs? Like a pistol (or if you don't like firearms, pepper spray) or something? Thanks for sharing all this. Things are going fine at my school. I'm off for the entire week of Thanksgiving, something traditional in most Louisiana schools. But I spent two solid days, Saturday and Sunday, and part of Monday doing final checks on yearbook pages for a Monday deadline and then submitting them online. And then a day doing lesson plans for the period up to the Christmas holiday. Lol, we teachers have it easy. I enjoy the work, though. And I always remind myself that the hours are so much better than during my Army career. We have settled down since Katrina. I still have five Katrina refugees in my classes. One family tried to go home a couple of weeks ago but came back, saying there just weren't enough facilities open for them, and the school opening had been delayed. Looks like some of them will be leaving over Christmas holiday though. My daughter was recommending getting some Mace or something too, but that really isn't my style. I'm open and friendly and trusting and I share with my students that I would rather take the chance of having someone steal from me than to treat all my students as thieves and lock everything away. So far, I've had nothing stolen, despite leaving DVD's laying around on my desk, leaving my DVD player out and unlocked, my bookbag and purse on the desk and so forth. Of course, I am fully prepared to accept any loss if I am going to demonstrate honor and trust to my students. So far it seems to be working and I have very good relationships with all my students... kinda like I was their mom (a caring, non-abusive mom). I guess I want to say that at my age, it is more important to me to make a personal statement about how one should live than it is to worry about my personal safety or possessions. God, I sound like a coach out of the next Karate Kid movie... or a Mother Teresa wannabe! Last night, I opened my door to three people (two men and a woman) who I vaguely knew (they are related to one of my students) who were begging me for a ride about six miles down the road to take some starting fluid and a special wrench for a locking hub so they could change a tire. I had given one of them a ride once before (I think). So, I grabbed my keys and we all piled into my Jeep and had a nice little expedition out into the hinterlands on rutted Jeep trails to their house. It occurred to me that they could pull out a gun and shoot me or something, but I was never worried and I had a good time chatting with them. I really do bond with the Navajo as I build new friendships all of the time. They know that I genuinely care and want to help and I just hope that I can be a model for others. It does seem like the people who get victimized out here tend to be the ones who obsess about their security and distrust everyone, but it doesn't keep them safe. Yep, I'm hopelessly naieve, but at this point in my life, I really have made peace with myself and material possessions and personal safety seem irrelevant. If I had an opportunity to go into a war zone with Doctor's Without Borders to help refugees, I think I would volunteer in an instant. Hey, thanks for caring and you provide some good advice (even if I'll probably continue my high risk behavior out here). I'm confident that I'll be safe... and I am a pretty big girl who knows how to fight back if attacked. And now, my turkey is almost done and I'll be heading over to my friend's house to have Thanksgiving dinner with her family. Happy Thanksgiving to all!
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Love & Peace, Far Dareis Mai My old Piczo site seems to be gone, so no more Navajo Nation pics :(
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