jackx
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Joined: 7/8/2009 From: Germany Status: offline
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Alexander Seil: Not sure how I ticked you off, but I can assure you that I didn't intend to. I don't leave my ivory tower to go to online forums to pick a fight. ;) As with what I go by (in general, as anthropoid brought it up also): just personal experience. That's mostly other students, on and off campus, and random people at the bus stop/on the bus etc. And on campus, gaming, and particularly MMORPGs, are absolutely taboo. You'd never ever mention that you did that, because somehow, that'd convey the idea that you're a lazy slacker and don't take your studies seriously at all, and also (possibly) have no social life. It's ridiculous at times, because talking about excessive partying in no way seems to undermine your "seriousness", but gaming can always put it in question, even when your work results clearly show that there is no reason for doubt at all. And if it's to be girlfriend stories, I have a wonderful one about a date where we were both trying our very best to convince the other we were not playing games. About 5 minutes into the conversation on that subject, it was extremely obvious that we both spent a lot of time playing games, but neither of us wanted to own up and admit it, and it basically ruined the whole thing, because we were both too busy pretending to do much else. Sad, yes, and you may laugh at my expense (looking back, I do, too), but I hope it also helps explain where my perception of "social acceptance" comes from. (I'm 24 btw., and Alex definitely has me beat when it comes to serious wargaming. I spent too much time on FPS. ;)) The "fitting in" part would come from my two younger half-brothers. I got picked on at school for playing games, because that was "uncool". Now they get picked on because they don't play. Now that I re-read the mentally growing up comment, I realize that I should've elaborated on that. I meant that as a reference to that groups general avoidance of anything that remotely resembles responsibility. In German, I'd be talking of their "Beliebigkeit", their refusal to make any lasting commitments. That's a general issue, which carries over into gaming as well, of course I wasn't trying to imply that a certain type of gaming behaviour alone caused mental immaturity, but unfortunately, I realize that the post can be read that way. My apologies. Edit: I'm placing such emphasis on those fairly young age groups because IIRC, that's where most of the video game sales are... if I'm wrong about that, please let me know, as it's been a while since I've debated this subject, and I didn't bother to update my facts for this one. Lunchbreak posting is bad, and I have no excuse. :(
< Message edited by jackx -- 7/16/2009 9:07:44 PM >
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