Charles2222 -> RE: The relative strength of both sides in WITP (1/13/2008 12:47:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: goodboyladdie Hi Charles I suggest you read some of t's boastful rantings before you leap to his defence. The boy has an ego. He may be as good as he thinks, but he is certainly no better than GH as he claims elsewhere. His loading of HRs to remove any early Allied advantages certainly help him have his "fun". I am enjoying watching his game, but I cannot read his AAR as he winds me up too much. I am not surprised that people are starting to have a little bit of difficulty holding their tongues... The main point of what I was trying to make, is that sometimes we forget that otherwise irritating people can sometimes come up with gems. I don't think they're encouraged to overcome their bad habits of whenever they do, and come up with what I viewed as a good one in this case, if we never give them a break to keep reminding them of their disbehavior all the time. I also posted to show just how one can easily let our past views of their posts, obscure every particular post they may have. It may be entirely true that Mike was looking at the post objectively and just thought it was trash anyway, but it sure sounded like just a way to punish somebody who elsewise might often be misbehaving. So see how differently I viewed it? His logonid told me something, but I had never noticed him stand out, but then I don't read AAR's anyway. Surely there are at least times where we should take a good idea for what it is worth, and disregard that we may be wanting to give them yet another spanking? I don't see why anybody who has got on the downtrodden list, would ever want to post again if that is the case, but maybe that's the entire purpose to harangue people when they are general misbehavers, to get them to not post anymore. Just throwing out some possibilities out here mind you. I saw Mike responded, but haven't read it yet. And who are you to preach? People tend to get what they deserve. Everyone can make the odd misjudged post and the majority of people tend to ignore/forgive those. Everyone has bad days. Hopefully posters learn from the reactions to their post and become better forum citizens, but some people do not. It is not wrong for people to lose patience with persistent "offenders", be they friend or foe... So what do you deserve goodboyladdie? Would you like me to that instrument of so-called fair play on you? You needn't worry. I have more than enough training to know that to do that is to only stain myself, and then we have two people stained, and if anything the overall situation is only worse than before. It's too bad you aren't seeing that. Basically I am just getting tired of people taking potshots at alleged naredowells. Why? Well here's the perfect example. I enter the thread, having no ill feelings for trollelite at all, and then so many want to spew his faults to me, and then end up largely destroying the thread in so doing. You know what? Maybe I have nothing against him and some of you guys are trying to cause that very thing? Maybe I even treasure when the alleged naredowells act in sanity as he did here. It seems to me quite logical, though not foolproof, that if you treat the naredowell as a human being when they are actually doing well, that maybe they will grow to like it and improve, but if all people want to do is constantly hang a carboard sign on them saying they are unclean, I don't see them being made any better by that; and still we're often staining ourselves in the process. Why not give the guy some space when he is more lucid? Is it going to kill anybody, that one of the perhaps least regarded pulls off something good? For shame. Save the ire for when he's bad, not when he is good or neutral. If he's all that bad, just report him, just make sure to not use this thread as an example of him misbehaving, because it won't even come close to cutting it. Maybe I do deserve criticism Old Chap. If I do, then I am more than happy to accept and apologise as you are always fair and balanced when you post. The only thing I objected to was that you seemed to be judging Mike unfairly. As you will see from the current crop of sarcasm, the forum regulars all seem to have run out of patience with this particular individual at the same time. This is what I was trying to draw your attention to in the hope that you would put Mike's seeming attitude in context. I applaud your stance, but I also object to being judged/preached to. It is your right to express your opinion and also your right to do what you feel you can to lift the tone and perhaps add balance. All I am saying is that people have a right to express themselves when they have had enough. Humour often allows alleged offenders to see their own faults when criticism fails. If that does not work then bless Matrix for the green button. I have only ever had to use it once, but I am glad that it is there should I ever need assistance in cheek turning. It's taken me many failed attempts to answer this with what I think is a proper response, and yet, will I be pleased with this one? I will try make this as brief as possible, but know there's a lot more material than I will present, as you have touched on a subject which I have studied for quite some time, and am still working on developing. The crux of what follows is primarily meant to have you see a wee bit of light concerning "judging and preaching" but I have noticed something else in your response since then which I will address as well. I wasn't going to mention J+P at all, but since you have now mentioned it a second time, perhaps I should give you a bit more information than it appears you know about those things. 1. Judging. Perhaps you hadn't realized that what got this subject into a shallow surface level topic with the culture, perhaps some 20 years ago, is not as honorable as it seems, in fact it's so dishonorable it sickens me. It is basically a manipulation of Scripture where some of the following quotes were quite important "Judge not and ye shall not be judged" "Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone" and finally "Go and sin no more". There has been an emphasis on "judge not" in order to try to sound like their interpretation has some valid religious truth to it, and then completely ignore the rest of the incidents that occurred. The phoney idea was to try to make it sound as though judging were a sin. Such that when some people get offended by allegedly being judged, they are basically making the statement that they believe they have been sinned against or harmed. Now, a number of issues. Jesus did NOT say it was a sin to judge. His admonition was basically going back to so many other teachings of the Church, for example (and there are more which don't occur to me at this time) the Our Father prayer. We pray that we should be forgiven as we forgive others. In judging, we are not forbidden to judge, but He was reminding them that the measure they dealt out, would be returned to them; so be careful (of course they weren't careful up to that point). Notice the ruthlessness of the mob as well, which obviously needed some taming. I have heard that Jewish law had okayed killing for adultery, but I don't know that for sure, but even if it is so, notice the circumstances aren't anything like some official act of the state that such a killing would take place. No, they found her and immediately went to kill her. No trial; no nothing it appears to me. Also, where's the man that she adultered with? He should be getting the axe too? You can see this mob has no use for anything resembling objective judging and they won't even wait for any proper proceedings, which is just a bit ironic that Jesus stops it, when you recall that His own death had another sham trial. Now the idea that you aren't supposed to judge people, as it's commonly used, uses also the "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" in order to state that you shouldn't judge people's sins. Now I might be inclined to agree with that if two things weren't the case: 1. Jesus was sinless and incapable of sin 2. The phrase Jesus spoke to the woman after they left. If judging people's sins were a sin (though it is a sin to claim one has knowledge of whether they have full knowledge of the seriousness of what others did, and whether they fully consented) then Jesus sinned when He judged her in sin "Go and sin no more". Also, if you aren't supposed to objectively state sin as sin apart from whether one consented to the act they did, then how could He call what she did as sin? Even Jesus did not state whether she fully consented or not. Objectively, the act she committed was sin and it is possible she was blame free from it nonetheless (in the religious sense). You see? You cannot judge them guilty of whether they consented to what they did, only that they did it. Now, since Jesus is the Judge, He could had done what He jolly well pleased, since He does know our level of full guilt in the matter. We do not in the case of others, so while we can tell them they have sinned, we cannot tell them they are fully guilty, if you understand that. Also, let me ask you what a judge does in the worldly sense? He examines the evidence, whether there's a jury or not, and then passes sentence if the party is guilty. So even if you do not wish to honor the Christian tradition I have just told you (and how can you ignore it when the admonition to not judge, as twisted as it is commonly used, was manipulated from Christian tradition?), even in the earthly sense that some people have come up with, their phrase falls empty in very many cases. Now since a judge passes sentence, how many times have you seen anybody, certainly not in this thread, pass a sentence on you? And yet you say I'm judging you? Is it not so that I have done precisely what I have said here, that I have cited you for doing something wrong only? Have I even reported you and others to mods? To cut to the chase, haven't all I done is basically get you and others to see what you objectively did was wrong? Nothing more. 2. Preaching. I guess you erroneously lump this together with judging, but it's not even close to the same thing. Oh, you can felt stung by either one, but that doesn't make them the same. You can also hate either one, but that doesn't make them the same either, but, the shallow world thinks of them pretty much the same, don't they? I don't think I will explain what preaching is really, but recall the admonition of the Lord to "preach to the ends of the earth". Now, myself, I often love preaching, that is, hearing it. Just finished a lovely book wrote which had some of the Cure de Ars sermons in it, which I have read for at least the third time. The guy was a genius and a saint. There's nothing I like talking or thinking on more than philosophy and things I have gleamed from preaching. So since you can see I see nothing worng in preaching, better yet that it's commendable, why would I insult it's integrity by pretending it was something offensive? You or I can be offended by alot of things that aren't in themselves offensible material. So having condensed my thoughts on this a great deal (though still long), just why would I be concerned that you don't like being preached/judged to, as you say? Tell me, just how is it anybody can get you to better your behavior, when you have those weapons? You're not letting any correction in edgewise like that. All I generally gather from people who are adept at using that phrase, in fact I would never us it, is that they don't want to hear any form of correction, which many will then tell you nothing further, because it's obvious it won't get anywhere anyway. I was of that mind when you first stated it, but now that you have gone further, I thought that warranted a clarification, hoping any of this makes any sense to you. Which brings me to your contradiction. You say you applaud my stance, yet you don't like being preached/judged. These things are mutually exclusive. How can you applaud what I said and then object to it's delivery? That's nonsense. It's double-speak. It reminds me of the people who say they don't support abortion, but they have to vote for those who support abortion. It's just another trite phrase they picked up that they haven't put 30 seconds of thought into. I figure most people have only one way to show they're against abortion; how they vote. And yet people don't see the contradiction when they say they have to vote for pro-aborts. If all one ever did for one side or the other of abortion, was how they voted (empty phrases counting for nothing) then how can they claim they're against it? Instead, they have proven they are for it by their vote, but they're still concerned that others will see them in a bad light, if they say they are for what they vote for.
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