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el cid again -> RE: Commands (11/22/2006 7:02:18 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Nemo121
No Sid. I take my committments seriously but I found you impossible to communicate with... and then when I stated I was probably going to leave you started getting nasty and personal which really decided me to leave.
I wish Mifune good luck.
Whereas you merely said I was so unreasonable that if you went along with me, you would have to be an idiot. And of course, that if this were real life, you would send assassins. Totally respectful you were, no doubt about it. You asked for clarity - and I gave you carte blanche. I was only honest when I revealed I didn't think it would be enough - based on your past behaviors. I regret that theory prooved correct.
It remains that - in this thread - you said you objected to ultimatums "I will leave if I don't get my way" - referring to my exasperation with some radical schemes - and yet you have refused to honor that standard yourself. I naively expected more - and I am disappointed that all the stuff about "I negotiate hard, but I honor my commitments" was not determining.
Communication is a two way process. I do not have the kind of difficulty communicating with others which we experienced. That might suggest some introspection is appropriate. Just as in a marriage, if communication fails it is not often purely the fault of one side.
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